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Weight Loss Answers: Why It’s Tough to Lose Big

I’ve gained and lost a lot of pounds in my life, but I’ve got nothing on fitness trainer Drew Manning. In his new book Fit2Fat2Fit, he tells how, in a single year, he gained the weight equivalent of a good-sized Labrador retriever (75 pounds, to be exact) to learn what it was like to be overweight so he could better identify with his heavy clients — then lost it all again. (Don’t try this at home.)

Gaining the weight, which Manning did in just six months, was easy. All he had to do was eat junk food and fast food, drink soda, and trade his gym membership for a spot on the couch. No surprises there. But losing the weight?

Manning thought that part would be simple, too — his starting view, he admitted, was that his overweight clients simply weren’t trying hard enough. But he ended up encountering bumps along the way that challenged even his iron will. Here are some of them – along with expert advice on how anyone trying to lose weight can hike their odds of overcoming them.

1. That sugar-fat addiction

Though he previously loved healthy foods, Manning became well acquainted with cookies and French fries during the “fit2fat” portion of his journey — and it was tough to let them go. That’s not surprising, since the kind of “white” carbs found in junk food affect the part of the brain that produces dopamine, a neurotransmitter that helps control how we experience pleasure, making these foods downright addictive. “Once these areas of the brain are stimulated, you’ll keep on wanting more of the addictive substance, whether it’s alcohol, drugs or carbs,” says Mehmet Oz, MD. For the low-down on how to handle even the fiercest cravings, check out this video from Dr. Oz and addiction expert Mike Dow, PsyD.

2. Gym aversion syndrome

When the time came to reunite with the gym, formerly buff Manning felt self-conscious about having to resort to newbie moves like knees-down push-ups and assisted pull-ups. He’s far from alone. “Feeling self conscious about your physical appearance is quite normal when first starting out on an exercise program,” says Sharecare Elite Trainer Darrell Chichester. He points out that even the fittest, most toned gym rats probably felt the same way when they first started out. “When they see you, they see somebody who has bravely taken those difficult first steps and are hoping for your success,” he says.

Find expert suggestions for improving your body image here.

3. Feeling the burn—too much

Manning was sore for day after his first few workouts as his previously neglected muscles were working hard to keep up and get stronger. First rule of thumb when your own muscles are singing a similar tune: “Rest,” says Sharecare fitness expert Todd Townes. “Always pay attention to your body. It will tell you when it needs a break and when it is ready to push forward.” While you’re resting, try these tricks for relieving muscle soreness.

4. Saying goodbye to soda

Manning suffered from headaches after kicking his soda habit. That’s not surprising, given that a 20-ounce bottle of Mountain Dew (his preferred drink) has nearly as much caffeine as a cup of coffee.  But kicking the soda habit is key. Even diet soda is bad for your waistline. To drain a soda addiction, try these tips from Dr. Oz.

What it all comes down to is this: If you’re having a tough time losing weight, don’t blame yourself. It’s hard work! But as Manning can now attest, if you’re committed to shedding the pounds, it will happen.

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Have you lost a lot of weight? What sorts of challenges did you face? Tell us about them in the comment section below.

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Su Reid-St. John

Su Reid-St. John is Sharecare's Senior Fitness Editor. Before joining the team, she spent over a decade on Health magazine's editorial team, overseeing all things exercise-related during the majority of her time there. She lives in Birmingham, AL with her husband (Eric), daughter (Zoe), and cat (Lucy), and can be found inline skating, Nordic walking, cycling, doing yoga, and strength training (TRX is her new obsession) whenever time allows.

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Comments

  1. Marlene

    I started working seriously on my weightloss Oct 2010. Today, I’m lost 71 lbs and feeling great.

    My challenges were giving up chocolate and soda. I found it easier to give up the candy bars when the reached $1.00 or more. I got my chocolate from cocoa baked almonds and choclate covered pomegrante or through energy/power bars.

    Soda was another hard item to stopped but I weaned myself off of it and with the exception of some sips in the last 2 weeks from a bottle, I haven’t had any for more than 6 months which of course also aided in the weight loss. I find now that it doesn’t task good.

    I have 30 lbs left to reach my goal and 40 as an ideal location to really be at.

    June 15th, 2012, 9:39 am
  2. Jean

    I’ve lost 70#. I started by kicking my Diet Coke addiction. I started incorporating fresh healthy fruits and vegetables into every meal. If I am tempted by fast food, I forgo the fries and substitute a salad or fruit cup with my “main” course. I still get the satisfaction of the meal without as much guilt. I have noticed the “bad food” cravings have decreased dramatically, and the craving for fresh healthy food has gone way up!

    I joined the Memphis Runners Women’s Run Walk program to start my exercise program. It was great because it was divided into groups depending on your level. I also tried a small beginner yoga class that was held at a church instead of one of the larger yoga studios with tiny, bendy yogis. It was so supportive and relaxing without making feel like I didn’t belong because I was not a size 0. I have now added Zumba, weightlifting, and a bootcamp class. I have something scheduled at least 5 days a week. I now feel so much better and I am able do so much more.

    I am not at my goal weight, but I am not giving up and I am so happy with my results. I don’t beat myself up when I have a bad day, I just get back on track and keep moving in the right direction!

    June 15th, 2012, 11:09 am

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